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Tell me about you my love….The REAL YOU!

tell me about you

Tell me about your fears girl. Tell me about your insecurities. Tell me about the crazy things you have done sweetheart and Tell me the names of the people you dislike. Tell me about the people you cant imagine living without and what qualities in those people makes them so special in your life. Describe those people in detail to me my love.

Tell me the stories behind the scars on your body and also about the scars on your mind. Share your failures with me my dear and tell me about the struggles you faced while overcoming them. Share your dark stories with me my love and let me in on all your secrets too. Introduce me to the erotica in you sweetheart and share with me your most erotic fantasies. Share with me your thoughts on marriage and tell me your views on sex too. Tell me about your idea of a good life sweetheart and tell me your views on love. Tell me about your concept of “God” and share with me your views on spirituality.

Share with me the limitations of your health and fitness and how it affects your life sweetheart. Talk to me about your family problems my love and share with me the issues you might be having with your family members. Speak to me about your guilts and regrets my dear and tell me about your nightmares. Speak to me about what keeps you awake at night and tell me about the worst experiences of your life my dear. Tell me about your dreams and let me know your achievements in detail. Tell me about your deeds of selflessness and also tell me about your selfish acts my sweetheart. Tell me about the things that make you feel suffocated and what makes you feel calm from the inside. Tell me about the most embarrassing moments of your life and also the ones filled with pride. Talk to me about the things that you wish to undo in your life and tell me about the experiences you wish you could relive again and again. Tell me, my darling, about the things and people you are very possessive about and what extent you might go upto to have them in your life.

Tell me which side of the bed you like to sleep on and what kind of food gives you digestion problems my dear. Tell me about the restaurants whose food you love to eat and let me know the ones that you hate. Tell me about the last time you cried your heart out my darling and also about the time when you laughed till your stomach hurt. Speak to me about the irritating extended relatives in your life and tell me about the ones you love. Tell me about the sitcoms you love to watch but more importantly tell me why you love to watch them and which characters you like the most. Share with me your childhood dreams and tell me about your teenage fantasies. Show me the child in you sweetheart and let me play with her.

Tell me about your strong romantic crushes and share with me the crazy things you did for them. Describe to me your idea of Romance my dear. Tell me what you do when you loose your temper and the last time you completely lost it. Tell me about the people or things you have crazily faught “for” but also tell me about the people whom you have faught “against”. Tell me about how you faught and the damage you caused. Tell me about the clothes you are most comfortable in and the type of clothes you hate to wear. Tell me about the best compliments you ever received and also the worst comments that you have had to face. Tell me about the people who gave those to you.

Discuss with me your views on Money and how you handle that commodity my love. Describe to me, in detail, the most beautiful places and sights you have ever seen and also about the places you wish to travel to. Tell me about the kindness you have done towards strangers and also the kindness that you would have received which moved you from the inside. Tell me the story of the hardest times you have ever faced and how it affected your heart, mind and soul. Tell me your view on politics my dear and speak to me about what you think of your country. Tell me about the little or big acts of patriotism that you have done and how happy those things make you feel.
Discuss with me about the times you were rude or non-courteous to people and how you think it might have made them feel. Tell me the things that would make you happy after going through a bad rough day. Tell me how you like to start your day and what is the last thing you do before you sleep. Tell me all of this sweetheart and much much more!

Hey girl, let me see past the worldly image of yours and let me into your world. The real world! Allow me to see beyond what everyone in this world sees in you. Let me into the best things in your life but make sure you introduce me to the worst parts too.

Please know sweetheart that I do have the stomach to digest that you might not be perfect. I know that nobody is! So please don’t be scared of showing me your “perfectly imperfect” self with all its happiness, sadness, regrets, dreams, fears, insecurities, strengths, weaknesses, achievements, failures, hopes, nightmares, setbacks, scars, sweetness, troubles, joys and all the aspects of your life that really and actually matter. I have met many people in this life and I know that most of them live a dual life, one that is shown to the world and another that they actually live in. So show me the world that you actually live in sweetheart, your real world! Introduce me to you, Let me in! Show me the real you my darling and share with me the things that actually matter and makes you, the lovely Β REAL “YOU”. πŸ™‚

My Dear Reader,
I hope you could connect with my thoughts and words.
Please do share your views with me by leaving a comment here or emailing me at vishrut.parekh@gmail.com. Thanks πŸ™‚
May Peace be unto You.
-Vishrut

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27 comments on “Tell me about you my love….The REAL YOU!

  1. Reader
    May 28, 2015
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    Points with number would improve the readability!! It is really a very extensive list.. Good One!!!

    • vishrut parekh
      May 28, 2015
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      Your suggestion is really appreciated, thanks for that! πŸ™‚
      I have written it as if I am saying all that to someone face to face in the middle of a conversation and hence I guess that pointwise presentation would take away that feel! πŸ™‚
      Please keep visiting, reading and sharing your suggestions and comments. Thanks again! πŸ™‚

  2. Kavita
    June 27, 2015
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    Sooo Sublime !!!

    • vishrut parekh
      June 28, 2015
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      This compliment of yours is amongst the few “STRAIGHT TO THE HEART” compliments I have ever received! πŸ™‚
      I am really & deeply touched πŸ™‚
      I have been thinking since quite a while about how to reciprocate and still I am having a shortage of words to express my gratitude the way I am feeling it… and so, in the end, all that I am able to say is a simple HEARTFELT “THANKS”! πŸ™‚
      I shall recall this compliment whenever going through a bad day πŸ™‚
      Thanks a lot πŸ™‚
      May You Be Blessed.
      Take care πŸ™‚

  3. Kavita
    June 28, 2015
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    I m feeling happy …I just learnt that I compliment good…
    And u take a compliment so well 😊

  4. Shruti
    July 12, 2015
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    Soooo Many Qns.!!! But I appreciate this quality of yours. It shows how you give more than your 100% in everything you do..Although I am not sure if you could actually relate to what I meant πŸ˜‰

    • Vishrut Parekh
      July 12, 2015
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      Hahaha… I do understand what you mean! πŸ˜€ and I take it as a compliment! πŸ˜‰
      But the context of this write-up is not like an interview wherein the questions are prepared and had to put in hardwork to prepare the questions πŸ™‚
      Its a request being made to a girl in the most loving way wherein a passionate guy is showing his interest in the girl… he wants to swim in the depths of that girls “being”…wanting to explore her mind and know the essence of what makes the girl that she is… wanting to connect and understand the things about her that actually matter… its a passionate expression in words of his genuine interest in her and his efforts to get the girl to open the doorway to her real self..to her soul! πŸ™‚
      I guess, now if you re-read the write-up with these thoughts in mind then you would enjoy it more! πŸ™‚
      A heartfelt thank-you for connecting and giving me your genuine feedback… I enjoyed replying to your comment πŸ™‚
      Thanks and take care πŸ™‚

  5. Shruti
    July 12, 2015
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    Yes Vishrut..
    I had already understood your emotions very well in my first read itself..
    But my reply was simply on a lighter note remembering some of my emotions πŸ™‚
    Don’t forgot you are very good in conveying what you really want to say. U just use the correct words. But Thanks for your wonderful reply πŸ™‚

    • Vishrut Parekh
      July 12, 2015
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      That is soooo nice of you to respond to my reply! πŸ™‚
      I did understood the light vein in your earlier comment and enjoyed it too! πŸ˜€
      And it feels really nice to know that you could understand my emotions expressed in the write-up and the earlier comment πŸ™‚
      Thanks a lot for connecting. Take care πŸ™‚

  6. Payal
    July 18, 2015
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    Love this piece Vishrut!

    • Vishrut Parekh
      July 18, 2015
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      I am really glad to know that! πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚
      Thanks πŸ™‚

  7. Sejal
    August 9, 2015
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    Its so wonderful n touchin to knw tht sum1 wants to knw sooooooo much abt u..rather everyy single aspect of ur likes, dislikes, ur wants, expectations, ur desires, ur hobbies, ur interests, ur habits, ur feelings..everythin n n

  8. Sejal
    August 9, 2015
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    Its an absolute rare thing to find such a guy.,who’d actually have the time n interest n PATIENCE to listen so much!!! Still all said n done, I LOVED this fantasy world!!!!

    • Vishrut Parekh
      August 10, 2015
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      I think that more then it being rare to find such a guy, its more about it being rare to find people who are able to wait…and wait patiently…and save themselves…until they find THAT ONE person in whom they evoke the level of passion and the intensity of love that is required for such interest and inquisitiveness πŸ™‚
      The write-up is not just about a guy being interested to know the likes, dislikes, etc about a girl and listening to her…but the essence of this write-up is about a guy wanting a girl to bare her soul…to become naked in front of him even without shedding her clothes…to become vulnerable in front of him…and letting her know and making her feel confident, that immaterial of what she says, her vulnerability will not be exploited and that he would not be able to stop loving her! πŸ™‚
      And its about a guy who wants a girl to break down the walls around her and allow him inside…inside her mind, inside her real existence!…its about a guy wishing to know the inner core of a girl…her essence…and he is not just inquisitive but he is actually CRAVING to know everything about her that makes her what she is!…a girl whom he loves and feels for in the most intensely passionate way…
      And so, for such a guy who is so deeply and passionately in love with a girl, PATIENCE to listen is not something that he would need to work on! It would automatically be there! πŸ™‚
      Yes, you might be right that it could be a fantasy, but then every fantasy is a fanstasy ONLY UNTIL it turns into a reality! πŸ˜‰ πŸ™‚
      So do chase your fantasies…believe in them…and have the patience to give it the time it requires to turn into a reality!
      Amen. πŸ™‚
      May Peace Be unto You. πŸ™‚
      -Vishrut

  9. Nidhi
    October 8, 2015
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    Loved it….

    • Vishrut Parekh
      October 9, 2015
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      And that makes me very-very happy!!
      πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

  10. Dhara shah
    October 19, 2015
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    U have expressed this so beautifully. . . I fail to comment as this write up has left with me with no words. . M speechless. . . πŸ™‚

  11. Mahek
    January 30, 2016
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    Very beautifully expressed.It is about how paasionately a person would like “to be in” another person they love.Just a thought read somewhere :”Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts.”
    Once you have “being” that person then it is that makes a lovely relation.

    • Vishrut Parekh
      February 7, 2016
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      You shared some very beautiful thoughts. I thank you for that πŸ™‚
      And its a pleasure to know that you could connect so strongly to my writing and thoughts! πŸ™‚
      May Pure Love Be Unto You.
      Take Care πŸ™‚
      -Vishrut

  12. Siddhi
    March 16, 2016
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    By reading each & every line, I just imagine that someone special would ask me these questions to know me and I would answer each of them without fear & with honesty..

    If you know someone who accepts you the way you are and gives opportunity to share your ups-down of your life and make you comfortable the way you actual are, is the best person of some one’s life.

    Made my day.. Thanks for such a wonderful thoughts and writing.. πŸ™‚

    Wishing you that your fantasies turn into reality !!!

    • Vishrut Parekh
      March 16, 2016
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      May your imagination and wish of having such a person in your life come true…SOON! πŸ™‚
      And may he shower you with the most passionate and intense love that surpasses every imagination and expectation in your mind.
      AMEN πŸ™‚
      It is so good to know that my write-up made you feel so nice and improved your day! πŸ™‚
      Even I have to thank you because you made my day too by taking the time to share your thoughtful comment with me! πŸ˜€
      And last but not the least, Amen and Thank-You for your good wishes for me! πŸ˜€
      May You Be Blessed. πŸ™‚
      -Vishrut
      P.S. :- If you enjoyed this write-up so much then I guess a few of my other poems and write-ups which are of a romantic nature might interest you too…
      Given below are the links to some of those posts and in case you read them then please do share your thoughts about them with me…I would be obliged as it would be great to know how they made you feel. πŸ™‚
      Looking forward to further connecting with you and your thoughts! πŸ™‚
      Aabid Ki Farmaaish
      I’ll Choose You
      Bas Tujhe He Chahna Chahu
      You Just Cant Resist

      • Siddhi
        March 16, 2016
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        Thank you for your recommendations.. It’s like cherry on top of the cake.. I will sure read..

        Don’t know how do I thank..so keeping it simple!!
        Heartfelt thanks for your beautiful wishes for me.. πŸ™‚

        Take care !! Stay blessed !!

        • Vishrut Parekh
          March 17, 2016
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          The pleasure is all mine! πŸ™‚
          So a big thanks to you. πŸ™‚
          Keep connecting.
          Take Care. πŸ™‚
          -Vishrut

  13. Khushbu
    June 19, 2016
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    Super write up- it shows quality of willingness to accept the partner in way she is …and passionate to be part of her life rather than jus making her to be in ur life ..
    Totally appreciated….but really hard to find such guy

    • Vishrut Parekh
      June 20, 2016
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      I believe its about 2 lives becoming 1!
      2 individuals melting into a new being who is made up of both “together”.
      I guess its a 2 way street where there is no “his” life or “her” life but simply “our” life! πŸ™‚
      And I believe that its not about whether such guys or girls are hard to find or not…its about 2 imperfect people finding each other who are perfect for each other with all their imperfections! πŸ™‚
      I hope you understand what I tried to convey. πŸ™‚
      Thanks a lot for your thoughtful comment and compliment πŸ™‚
      Take Care.
      Be Blessed.
      -Vishrut

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